jewel or flower?

I know it has been a while BUT we have finally signed the contract and things are on track. I have a new lovely coordinator, Veronica, and things look great!

So on to more planning and decision making..... I will be wearing my hair up (still looking for that perfect picture, I am so picky when it comes to my hair) for the wedding and cannot decide if I want to wear some sort of jewelry or flower in my hair. The pictures are ones that I found online and I really like them. As my indecisive self, I want to order both and try them on. Hmmmmm...